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Nov. 30th, 2003 07:28 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
c9Dear Abby:
I have three acquaintances, let's call them Xavier, Yorik, and Zebediah. Xavier and Yorik have both told me that Zebediah's advances towards them are making them uncomfortable. I want everybody to get along, but it's not really my business, even if I knew them well. Is there any way that I help resolve this issue without making people feel bad?
Nosy in Des Moines
I have three acquaintances, let's call them Xavier, Yorik, and Zebediah. Xavier and Yorik have both told me that Zebediah's advances towards them are making them uncomfortable. I want everybody to get along, but it's not really my business, even if I knew them well. Is there any way that I help resolve this issue without making people feel bad?
Nosy in Des Moines
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Date: 2003-11-30 11:56 pm (UTC)As discussed in my last reply to you, you can't make everyone happy all of the time; you just don't have that power. Sometimes, it's best to accept that it really is none of your business and be there if any or all of Xavier, Yorik or Zebediah need to talk, but ultimately, it is up to them to work it out themselves.
How is December in Des Moines? Got your freak on?