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c9 ([personal profile] c9) wrote2003-11-03 10:52 am

QotD

When someone says "how many people have you had sex with?" how do you define "sex" ?

[identity profile] bartok.livejournal.com 2003-11-03 03:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I count it as people who have done something naughty merely in my mind, helps me with the numbers.

[identity profile] fiver00.livejournal.com 2003-11-03 04:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I consider the word "sex" to include oral as well as anal. It is, afterall, oral sex.

However, when I'm asked how many people I've had sex with. I usually only say the number that I've had anal with because the number is much smaller than the amount of people I've had oral with.

Okay, and this isn't making sense. Ramble.

[identity profile] stargazen.livejournal.com 2003-11-03 04:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Heritage Dictionary:

"sex n.
The property or quality by which organisms are classified as female or male on the basis of their reproductive organs and functions.

Either of the two divisions, designated female and male, of this classification.

Females or males considered as a group.

The condition or character of being female or male; the physiological, functional, and psychological differences that distinguish the female and the male. See Usage Note at gender.

The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.

Sexual intercourse.

The genital"

So I guess people of the 'homer-sex-ual' persuasion can not have sex..

So the answer to the question... (depends on your history) but for instance would be: "Just once, but that was a LONG time ago..... so dont hut me please..." :-p

[identity profile] kdborg.livejournal.com 2003-11-03 04:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I usually respond with an equally vague answer: "I've fooled around with..." And if whoever is asking wants more specifics, they'll ask.

[identity profile] nihilicious.livejournal.com 2003-11-03 05:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I only count the times I enjoyed it, or at least didn't regret it afterwards. If I really enjoyed it, I count it twice.

[identity profile] x-23.livejournal.com 2003-11-03 06:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I always hate that question...because if you give a large number your a slut but if you give a low number, then you are inexperienced..it's a fine line.

I count sex as any time I orgasmed with someone else touching me.

[identity profile] bartok.livejournal.com 2003-11-03 07:15 pm (UTC)(link)
does my sitting next to you while you groaned at "Voodoo Academy" count?

hey

[identity profile] x-23.livejournal.com 2003-11-03 07:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Considering my love life, yes oh god in heaven yes

Re: hey

[identity profile] bartok.livejournal.com 2003-11-03 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
glad I could be of service. can I put you down as a recognized charity on my tax return?

Re: hey

[identity profile] x-23.livejournal.com 2003-11-03 11:11 pm (UTC)(link)
sounds good...the desparate tall gay men of Atlantic Canada.

Re: hey

[identity profile] bartok.livejournal.com 2003-11-04 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
you liked it so much you bought the company. :-)

[identity profile] nihilicious.livejournal.com 2003-11-03 08:10 pm (UTC)(link)
That really doesn't sound like it should be a verb, but I looked it up and it is. It's intransitive, though, which is interesting.